Wednesday, February 3, 2010
I feel like I'm taking Crazy Pills
Thursday, January 28, 2010
If I Can Dream About 'If I Can Dream'
Thursday, January 21, 2010
Perspective
- Chavez: US weapon test caused Haiti earthquake
Tuesday, December 15, 2009
Monday, July 6, 2009
Saturday, June 27, 2009
Study Smart?
This is even worse than those "loading bars" that appear to "load" and then - whoa! - we have another process to load.
That is even worse than the multiple loading bars, or "this could take a really really long time or a really really short time depending on a bunch of factors, and we don't feel like creating a system that will accurately predict how fast this loading/installing process will actually take so we thought we'd just post you a little unhelpful message to ease your concerns in case you thought your computer was crashing"
Thursday, July 31, 2008
Explaining the "Other" Thing
Sometimes people go into way too much detail about why they can't make something. This would work fine:
"Sorry, I won't be able to make lunch. I have an important meeting that came up last minute."
Being nice, you might add:
"Sorry, I won't be able to make lunch. I have an important meeting that came up last minute. I really wanted to make it – I'd skip this meeting if I didn't have to make it. I'll make it up to you…"
Something along those lines – letting the other person know that lunch was important to you and that you aren't just snubbing them – seems well called for. But sometimes you get:
"Sorry, I won't be able to make lunch. I have an important meeting that came up last minute. I really wanted to make it – I'd skip this meeting if I didn't have to make it. We're weren't supposed to have it – the whole deal was off the table but then Jim got a call from the guys over at More Important Than Lunch, Inc. and they suddenly want to discuss it again. So Jim calls me and is like, 'Chris, we're talking to them in 15 minutes.' And Jim's really concerned because More Important Than Lunch could like bring in so much revenue and . . ."
And what was an apologetic explanation turns into a detailed description of just how important/interesting the "Other" thing is. It's another way the fact that people like talking about themselves trickles into typical situations. We've probably all done it.